How to give up without trying

Relationship: an emotional or other connection between people. It is not an easy thing to keep a relationship alive and healthy,  especially when you don't try. Giving up is so much easier. Or claiming that your relationship was failing as an excuse to not try, fix or talk to make it better. It is also a good excuse to cheat and feel justified for doing so. Now...back to packing, my muse is being a nag.