About Me

It has been 15 years since I started this blog. A great deal has happened since, I'm not the same person, aging will do that. The pain I went through is clear to see on these pages. Although I'm in a better place now my memory of that time remains the same. I just hope that someone out there can relate and emphasize. I pray that time heals your heart and that you found a better life after your breakup.his blog. It remains "live" because I know that there is someone else out there who can relate to what I felt during that time. Who knows how many people get dumped everyday, the numbers must be high. We live in a " Me-me-me" world where respect and truth have diminished as good character traits in favor of shallow and selfish behavior.I just want to share with you that there is light on the other side. That recovery is a slow process to allow you to come out whole and healthier. We all deserve love. None of us deserve to be treated like something you trade in. Take the time you need to heal, you will be stronger for it.

into the light

Thursday, February 3, 2011

as my mother and grandmother might have said

***A little humor to break up the Melodrama***
Set scene, front porch of a home in the south, 2 older ladies in rocking chairs.

"
I just have to tell you about my poor daughter. Did you know she devoted 9 years to a man and then was put out like so much refuse?"


"My Dear, It was to Her great misfortune that she fell in love with a man of low moral character, a scalawag, a carpet Bagger."

" Poor thing, she spent years trying to be what the man wanted, and could never succeed. "

" You could see he had no desire to change. And then he blamed her for her mistrust after countless encounters with lewd women."

" Yes indeed, if she had trusted the man who lied to her, then he never would have cheated." "Never mind that he was doing it anyway."

" Lord's sake...he nearly drove her to do something desperately stupid."

" Well you know, what goes around comes around I always say."

" It is with deepest regret I must tell you, he came to a bad end."

" really? Well deserved...you could have seen that coming."

" The Lord moves in mysterious ways..Lordy..yes he does."

The End.
Moral of the story:
Scoundrels always lose. Bad men do not win.