About Me

It has been 15 years since I started this blog. A great deal has happened since, I'm not the same person, aging will do that. The pain I went through is clear to see on these pages. Although I'm in a better place now my memory of that time remains the same. I just hope that someone out there can relate and emphasize. I pray that time heals your heart and that you found a better life after your breakup.his blog. It remains "live" because I know that there is someone else out there who can relate to what I felt during that time. Who knows how many people get dumped everyday, the numbers must be high. We live in a " Me-me-me" world where respect and truth have diminished as good character traits in favor of shallow and selfish behavior.I just want to share with you that there is light on the other side. That recovery is a slow process to allow you to come out whole and healthier. We all deserve love. None of us deserve to be treated like something you trade in. Take the time you need to heal, you will be stronger for it.

into the light

Monday, February 4, 2013

My "Horror-scope" for today

"When you understand that a certain someone has disappointed you over and over again, you will finally see them for who they are. Today, it becomes clear that they are simply not the person you thought they were -- and it's time for you to admit it. When you accept them for who they are (warts and all), you will immediately feel less annoyed by their antics. Being held to a high standard doesn't work for everyone. Some folks simply can't rise to the challenge."

This could apply to a couple different people.
I do have a habit of expecting everyone to act
and live at a higher standard then perhaps they actually
set for themselves. I think we all perceive others
as though they were like us. --Well, I did, until they proved
otherwise.

k