About Me

It has been 15 years since I started this blog. A great deal has happened since, I'm not the same person, aging will do that. The pain I went through is clear to see on these pages. Although I'm in a better place now my memory of that time remains the same. I just hope that someone out there can relate and emphasize. I pray that time heals your heart and that you found a better life after your breakup.his blog. It remains "live" because I know that there is someone else out there who can relate to what I felt during that time. Who knows how many people get dumped everyday, the numbers must be high. We live in a " Me-me-me" world where respect and truth have diminished as good character traits in favor of shallow and selfish behavior.I just want to share with you that there is light on the other side. That recovery is a slow process to allow you to come out whole and healthier. We all deserve love. None of us deserve to be treated like something you trade in. Take the time you need to heal, you will be stronger for it.

into the light

Saturday, April 16, 2011

Distance

Distance is safe,
it keeps you from facing things
that show you made mistakes.
Distance insulates,
wrapping you in your perfect new world.
Distance protects you from your past,
the wrongs you did to others.
Distance a guilt-free zone,
where those that wept can be forgotten.
Distance is perfect
a step away, a pretentious new beginning.
Distance a hiding place,
where you can pretend that this time
is what you wanted.
Distance is a drug,
you can take to forget everything
that happened before.
Distance is a lie,
told only to yourself,
we can see what you intend.
Distance is a illusion
a magicians trick.

Distance is a mistake,
continuing a life
that hides the truth.
Distance a dream,
but no matter how far you run
the past is always there.