About Me

It has been 15 years since I started this blog. A great deal has happened since, I'm not the same person, aging will do that. The pain I went through is clear to see on these pages. Although I'm in a better place now my memory of that time remains the same. I just hope that someone out there can relate and emphasize. I pray that time heals your heart and that you found a better life after your breakup.his blog. It remains "live" because I know that there is someone else out there who can relate to what I felt during that time. Who knows how many people get dumped everyday, the numbers must be high. We live in a " Me-me-me" world where respect and truth have diminished as good character traits in favor of shallow and selfish behavior.I just want to share with you that there is light on the other side. That recovery is a slow process to allow you to come out whole and healthier. We all deserve love. None of us deserve to be treated like something you trade in. Take the time you need to heal, you will be stronger for it.

into the light

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

not a racehorse or a car...

Just something to vent...my previous relationship..yes the one this blog has been built around..is being referred to by the other half as "a good run." I really find that reference to be distasteful and objectifying. I am not a horse to be put out to pasture when my usefulness is over. I am not a car that has worked well and is now broken down and worthy of a junkyard only. I am a person...and our relationship was not a "RUN". If he considers it to be so, then I was never a person to him, just a part time project. And that truly sucks. The word was Love..I do not think he will ever understand what it means. It's much easier to view me as a project that failed then a woman who loved him, exclusively. My heart was not divided, his was. And pastures and junkyards are Not where I belong. Last time I checked I was a person.
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