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It has been 6 years since I started this blog. It remains "live" because I know that there is someone else out there who can relate to what I felt during that time. Who knows how many people get dumped everyday, the numbers must be high. We live in a " Me-me-me" world where respect and truth have diminished as good character traits in favor of shallow and selfish behavior. I just want to share with you that there is light on the other side. That recovery is a slow process to allow you to come out whole and healthier. We all deserve love. None of us deserve to be treated like something you trade in. Take the time you need to heal, you will be stronger for it.

into the light

Monday, June 11, 2012

Hypocracy

To say one thing, and mean another. To boast, to contrive, to stand above an act once committed by yourself, and act as though someone else was the one who performed it  in your place. To claim crimes against you while you yourself were the one who actually committed those crimes against another.

 Why do couples from earlier times stay together? "because you don't throw away something if it is broken."  I shudder at your ability to pretend that you are that person. To throw away broken relationships is something that you excel in. It was much too hard to fix them, and much easier for you to just toss them  aside and start over once again. You are not from the generation that stays with someone despite it all. Stop pretending that you are. You break things, you move on.

The wool is not being pulled over our eyes. We know better.

It is true that past generations have held stronger beliefs in vows and promises of forever,and they honored their vows.  Today there are many of us who know how if feels to be abandoned and cast aside for newer.  We also  believed in the promise of those vows. The  generations that followed?  They have the attention span of a commercial....and the commitment of just a few moments. That is the strength of conviction of the generations that followed, the one you feel apart of.

To spout yourself wonderful after how you have behaved? I think you have pulled that wool over your own eyes, and never look inward to discover the truth.