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It has been 6 years since I started this blog. It remains "live" because I know that there is someone else out there who can relate to what I felt during that time. Who knows how many people get dumped everyday, the numbers must be high. We live in a " Me-me-me" world where respect and truth have diminished as good character traits in favor of shallow and selfish behavior. I just want to share with you that there is light on the other side. That recovery is a slow process to allow you to come out whole and healthier. We all deserve love. None of us deserve to be treated like something you trade in. Take the time you need to heal, you will be stronger for it.

into the light

Monday, August 29, 2011

1979, a good year

1979, an interesting year and a starting point for my adulthood. I met my ex-husband and started dating him. Music was much cooler, 80's rock was starting to bloom, punk rock was making it's mark. My parents had their first split, causing a chain reaction that affected my future career wise, I dropped out of Nursing school, and have regretted it ever since. I got my first car, "Bertha Butt", one of the Butt sisters, who used to back fire and scare the neighbors, lol. Oh..and the shirts with vest, jeans with high heels? They were in style, just as they have come back into style now. (I knew I should have kept them...lol.) Going to school and working full time did not wear me out, sleep was secondary. I was an assistant manager at a taco joint, and made pretty good money for that period of time. I also worked for a while in fine jewelry, and it was the last time in my life I ever wore high heels to work.

I hung out at the beach with my friends, and blushed and sighed over my boyfriend. I was much more naive than kids are today. There were no worries about bills, creditors, making ends meet. It was a very good year. Sometimes I wish I could revisit that, and appreciate it more. I have asked for that time machine before, and I'm still waiting.

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