About Me

My photo
It has been 6 years since I started this blog. It remains "live" because I know that there is someone else out there who can relate to what I felt during that time. Who knows how many people get dumped everyday, the numbers must be high. We live in a " Me-me-me" world where respect and truth have diminished as good character traits in favor of shallow and selfish behavior. I just want to share with you that there is light on the other side. That recovery is a slow process to allow you to come out whole and healthier. We all deserve love. None of us deserve to be treated like something you trade in. Take the time you need to heal, you will be stronger for it.

into the light

Sunday, May 8, 2011

You never know

You never know if good advice is taken or discarded.  People have a tendency of believing that
they will be different than the one sharing that advice.  Like children who scoff at our parents wisdom, and later find it to be true.

You never really know anyone,  no matter how long you are with them,
you can presume you know their mind, but it is impossible to actually get
inside someone's head. Human beings are way to complicated to assume that you do or may know them..

You never know if the decisions you make now will turn out as you planned,
life has it's quirks.

You never know as a child which direction your life will take.  What we think we want,
and what turns out to be,  may take completely  different paths than we can anticipate.


You never know when your heart takes that leap whether someone will be there to catch it,
or drop it later in disinterest.

And you will never know if someone actually listens or only hears what they want to hear. Every word spoken or written can be interpreted to mean something else. It is up to the listener .