About Me

It has been 15 years since I started this blog. A great deal has happened since, I'm not the same person, aging will do that. The pain I went through is clear to see on these pages. Although I'm in a better place now my memory of that time remains the same. I just hope that someone out there can relate and emphasize. I pray that time heals your heart and that you found a better life after your breakup.his blog. It remains "live" because I know that there is someone else out there who can relate to what I felt during that time. Who knows how many people get dumped everyday, the numbers must be high. We live in a " Me-me-me" world where respect and truth have diminished as good character traits in favor of shallow and selfish behavior.I just want to share with you that there is light on the other side. That recovery is a slow process to allow you to come out whole and healthier. We all deserve love. None of us deserve to be treated like something you trade in. Take the time you need to heal, you will be stronger for it.

into the light

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

when

When I am not crying, I am pretty good company...
when I am not tangled up in why questions..
I can be fun to hang out with.
When I can look in a mirror and smile at myself
then I can say she's ok people.
When you test me for reaction
I can smile and know I let it go.
When the smile is not bitter but real
then I know I am over you.
When I step forward
I'm not looking back with regret.
When tomorrow arrives
 I will shrug off my past and embrace the new beginning.
When I think of myself as a person
I can see someone worthy of love.
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